So its been a hard road even with the app. I have periods where I look at other women when on the street and afterwards the pressure just keeps building up. I've red somewhere around here that the app wont fix all the problems, but it will help. The main "fixer" should be the "change of heart". As a believer I've always wondered about that, how can I chance my heart by myself...I cannot force it and I cannot force God to do it although he's the only one that can do it as King David prayed "Create in me a clean heart". All I have is to pray and try and pray and try and never stop.

What I've found is that if you have a goal to fight for than it will help you out. As a believer, I'll be honest, my main goal is not to restore my relationship with God(it should be, but it isn't - it would be nice though) - My main reason is my family and I want the best for them as when I was growing up I didn't have the best childhood. My father died from cancer when I was 10, I was severaly bullied at school, my broder got locked up in jail, my mother was being traumatized infront of me by the man who led us to the faith in the first place. Now I have something to fight for! Maybe the best "fighting method" is to have the right goal which is God, right?