This has been a battle that's for sure. And it will be for the rest of your life. Addiction is a lifetime thing. The devil wants you to fail. Sexual immorality doesn't just destroy you, it destroys your family and everything around you. My husband has been clean since February but the betrayal trauma is still there and I'm working through it. I'm trying my hardest to have faith. After multiple relapses the last 2 years it's been extremely hard to keep faith. The devil tries constantly to put fear and anxiety in my head that he will relapse again and it causes problems but once I step back and look at the facts I can tell what it is. But in the moment it's spiritual warfare.
To the partners of the addicts. Stay strong. Pray. Get counseling and mental health help through this. It's okay to get help navigating. You're not alone and this can end.