We're on the road to reconciliation but how do you keep yourself from checking this app to a point where you get sick. I know people will say things will get better. . . But this is literal emotional hell.
If you're religious you may be able to go to your church leadership for pastoral care. They may have someone that can be an accountability partner for him! Good luck! It is miserable especially the first year.
by PurpleLily 6d 18h 9m ago
If you're a spouse or romantic partner you shouldn't be the accountability partner if you're finding it impacts you negatively. In some situations it works well, but for others it doesn't. No shame saying "this isn't working for me". The challenge can be finding someone else to act as an accountability partner.
Remember to take care of yourself. You need healing too.
Remember to take care of yourself. You need healing too.
by strider 53d 17h 29m ago