We have had truple for around 3 years. There have been times when we have fought really badly and it was removed during those times. He struggles with feeling "babysat" and it would lead to him attempting to remove it. We can't be without it. He will fail without it. We have learned that it is essential for us in order to maintain trust and connection. I only wish it could go on TVs too! Or there was some kind of software for tvs. Anyway it is marriage saving to say the least! I can't thank truple enough for keeping us together.
You could buy a cheap security camera (as cheap as $30 or less) and point it at the TV. Not perfect, but it is something. If they move it, they'll be detected doing so.
by strider 618d 20h 34m ago
Hello. Sorry to hear you've fought. To balance out feelings of being babysat I wonder if you could join him by making a change in yourself? You could remove an unhealthy behaviour or take up a healthy one. You could then keep a check on each other. This might help you to better understand each other and remind you that you are stronger together. When you're united in positive change you both could choose to point a home security web cam at the tv because, from experience yeah, you are right, this addiction is strong and monitoring is essential.
by Revamp 630d 6h 5m ago